April 2013
8 posts
HOW TO MOVE ON?
1. You must cry a river.
Just cry it all out. Don’t take it in. It’s painful. It’s hard. And it is heavy so just cry it out loud. Release all the hatred, sadness, regrets, and bad memories. Don’t pretend to be strong, be weak at this point of time. Only at this point. Give yourself a chance to breakout, to feel the pain. Give it all. Cry it all.
2. Build a bridge.
After all the crying, dramas and pain. Have all the energy to stand up. Face the fact that it happened, it already did. Give all your effort to forget, how? Find other things that makes you happy too, remember we are not living on a single purpose, we live according to what makes us happy, and there are lots of things out there to be happy about. What you lost is just part of it, not the whole of it. Remember that.
3. Get over it.
If it’s done. It’s done. Don’t go back. Continue what you have started. Learn from mistakes. Don’t be a fool twice. Make a new start. Enjoy life!
February 2013
1 post
Tips para maging masaya.
- Pahalagahan mo ang sarili mo. Ikaw ay mahalaga, lagi mo iyang tatandaan. Hindi mo kailangang magpaganda o magpapogi ng sobra sobra para sa iba. Hindi ka nabuguhay para i-please sila. Maging masaya ka sa kung ano ang meron ka.
- Pahalagahan mo ang opinyon ng iba, pero mas pakinggan mo ang nasa puso mo. Tandaan mo na mahalaga rin naman ang magtanong o humingi ng opinyon ng iba pero mas makakabuti kung wag mong ugaliin na magtanong o manghingi lagi ng payo sa ibang tao. Tandaan mo may sarili kang pananaw at desisyon. Wag mong idepende ang pagpili sa ibang tao. Makikita mo na sa bawat pagdedesisyon mong mag-isa, mas lalo kang nagiging matatag.
- Stop for a moment. Enjoyin mo ang katahimikan. Ang mundo ay isang nakaka stress na pagsubok, kaya ugaliin mong huminto paminsan. Breath in, breath out.
- Appreciate the little things. Matuto kang magpasalamat sa lahat ng bagay. Mapamaliit man o malaki, maganda o hindi, nakakasakit o hindi.. magpasalamat ka pa rin dahil lahat naman ng nagyayari sa atin ay may dahilan. Maaaring hindi mo pa iyon makikita sa kasalukuyan pero malalaman mo rin yan pagdating ng panahon.
- Hinay hinay lang. Wag kang laging nagmamadali. Hindi naman padamihan ng accomplishment ang mundo eh. Tandaan mo, isang beses lang tayong pwedeng mabuhay. Walang rewind, walang second chance, kaya hangga’t kaya mo pa, gawin mo na. Enjoyin mo ang buhay.
November 2012
11 posts
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OMG. Thank you!
